from The 90-Day Challenge.
The only way to attract what you want is to STOP focusing your feeling-awareness (thoughts & emotions) on what you don't want. (This is the secret of The Secret.)
Many, most, people have trouble doing that.
One way that works exceedingly well, and, yes, somewhat sadly, because it is NOT always easy and because it DOES require self-control, constancy & consistency— is to stop looking at "What's wrong" in any and all unwanted situations and instead ask, "What's right?"
I know... I know... what's right about losing your job, a death, divorce, being broke, all those "bad" things that happen to good people.
(Take a deep breath... or three.)
There is ALWAYS something "right," and you can think of "right" as good, positive, that's working, desirable... OR "right" in terms of justice: it's fair, responsible, the proper outcome of the Law of Cause and Effect.)
"What's right?" works internally & externally— with your self and with others as well.
Pick a problem... any problem: Not enough money. Relationship "challenged." Facing an impossible deadline. Have to, need to, improve your performance, complete a project, get a new & better job, start or grow your own business... Truly, any "challenge" will do.
1. Ask: "What's right?" about the "current reality," what you have in front of now, where you are... now?
2. Ask: "What makes that right?" and drill down until you get to the essence of what's most important & valuable about it for you.
3. Ask: "What would be ideal?" your vision of the most desirable, "Couldn't be any better" outcome. "Imagine the possibilities."
There's more. Two more questions to be exact. But those three above properly (I.e.; seriously & sincerely) asked and engaged with, will give you a direct experience of shifting your internal and external conversation from destructive to constructive. AND you will experience the flowing, growing creative energy and the powerful positive feeling that comes (every time) with doing that.
And when (with some practice) you can do that any place, anytime, with darn near anything you're facing... you will be FREE. Just imagine what that will be like?
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