This is a piece I just wrote to promote the BeliefBusters iCourse. Please, let me know what you think...
What's Missing From "The Secret"
Like many millions of people all over the world, I watched the DVD of "The Secret". I don't know how many others were left disappointed and dissatisfied by the film—I was.
John Milton Fogg
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I've known about "The Law of Attraction" for a number of years now, and "The Secret" did a great job of turning new people on to the Law's truth and power. However, something was missing—something VERY important...
How you and I can USE The Law of Attraction.
There was NOTHING in The Secret that taught me that. And what I now understand from conversations with literally dozens of people (which I'm convinced represent 10's of thousands more just like them) that's a huge frustration. They KNOW things can be different... but they DON'T KNOW how.
Think positive thoughts and feel good. Great! Of course. That's right on. HOW!?!
And it's NOT only The Secret that has this big something missing. How many of the folks who've read "Think & Grow Rich" (even three or four times) are (rich)...? What percent of the people who say the affirmation, "I experience a continuous flow of prosperity" (10, 20 times a day) do...?
Of all the people who've bought all the books, heard all the CDs and Mp3s, spent thousands on weekend workshops, attended tele-seminars, written down goals and then more goals and then... How many are getting the results they desire, dream of and deserve?
I don't have all the answers. Just one of them. Here's the secret (and what was missing from "The Secret")...
Whatever the mind can conceive and believe it ALWAYS achieves.
Like it or not, that's what's so. In any and every situation there are only two ways to go: Believe you can or believe you can't. Either way, you're right, and both ways…
You will achieve ONLY what you believe.
That's the major (and can be terminal) problem with getting "The Law of Attraction" to work for you. It's NOT the Law that doesn't work. It works perfectly... always... every time. It's you and me. We don't BELIEVE it. (Or we believe it WON'T work.)
And that's what I call simply a "conflict of interests".
When the PUSH of "Pick the thoughts that feel good" comes up against the life-long PULL of "No matter what I do it's never enough" or "never good enough"... guess which wins?
Ever have the thought "I'm a loser" or "I don't deserve... success, health, happiness," whatever? Have it often enough and it becomes a habit of thought... and that is precisely what a belief is—a habit of thought.
There's only one thing to do: Make new habits of thought. You've got to start shifting those unwanted self–sabotaging beliefs into empowering beliefs that assure your success and keep on doing it—probably for the rest of your life. Certainly long enough for them to sink in and begin replacing the old ones.
It's the only thing I know that will work.
So... No... I'm not going to pull a Secret on you and keep the missing secret a secret. Here's what you must do:
You make up new empowering habits of thought the same way you made the old ones that no longer serve you (if they ever did). Then you have them overwrite any and all conflicting and contradictory thoughts, feelings, images, memories... to become your predominant belief. And you do that (new version of old joke coming) the same way you get on American Idol: Practice. Practice. Practice.
Only way to go?
Yes.
AND... There are as many ways to get where you want to be as there are different modes of transportation (planes, trains, Honda Accords and skateboards) and routes to take (and you won't have to trust your trip to MapQuest—unless you want to).
You can "do it yourself" (NOT recommended, because human beings are blind to our own limiting beliefs) or work with a professional, such as a mentor, coach, teacher, trainer... And of course all the before mentioned weekend workshops, tele-seminars, books and tools and techniques. But as I said, all the ones I tried—and I've been actively involved in this "work" as an author, speaker, student, participant, presenter, trainer, coach, "expert" even, for more than 30 years—fell short for me just like "The Secret" DVD.
So... I selfishly created a process called BeliefBusters for people like me who got the importance of shifting their unwanted, self-sabotaging beliefs to ones that served and inspired success AND wanted/needed to know HOW.
Look... you can have ALL the outward evidence of success, but if the beliefs beneath it all are dysfunctional and flawed, you will get what's coming to you sooner or later.
I know... I did.
I wrote a book that sold more than a-million copies around the world. Built a business from scratch that gave me a net-worth in excess of $4 million. Owned a 44-acre million-dollar estate in the rolling horse country of Thomas Jefferson's Virginia. Traveled the world first class and five stars. Then... all gone. ALL gone.
Not completely true: I still drive the Mercedes and re-set the time on my gold and stainless Rolex every couple of days cause it loses two minutes a day. And I have my collection of tribal rugs and oriental antique furniture and art. I am also married to one of the most stunningly beautiful women in the world and I am the 60-year-old father of four of the most remarkable kids God ever created (Rachel 27, Johnny 22, Eleonora Milena 6 and Anais Polina 2...). Obviously, my beliefs in some areas are inspired.
But in others... Try losing your adult life's work, entire net worth, all your income producing assets, and your place at the top of a "wave of the future" industry, and see what happens to your beliefs about your self-worth and success.
So... I created BeliefBusters for me. Good news about that is I'm one of those guys who cannot help myself from finding something good and great and sharing it with the world. I've made a career of doing that for 20 years. Plus, I'd already proven the old version of BeliefBusters worked with over 250 satisfied "customers" three or so years ago. Upgrading it with all I'd learned since seemed a "good thing" and a no-brainer.
There you have it. I'm doing myself what I'm recommending to you:
Look at your life right now…
That's what you have believed up till now.
Don't like what you've got?
Change your beliefs.
It's the only way.
BeliefBusters is a 13-week (three months) iCourse of weekly Lessons you get as download links in your email. It's priced at $20 a month (again for three months), because I knew that the people who needed it most could afford it least. Just about anybody can do 20 bucks. And to have people feel comfortable, I guaranteed the results or your money-back.
I like to say that BeliefBusters is MP3 for me: My Pleasure, Passion and Purpose. (Actually, I LOVE saying that.)
You know the truth of The Law of Attraction, that "Whatever the mind can conceive and believe it ALWAYS achieves" and "You will achieve ONLY what you believe"— for good, bad or indifferent.
BeliefBusters takes you step-by-step from knowledge to understanding and then leads through you a simple daily process, which over time—a very short time—transforms unwanted self–sabotaging beliefs to empowering beliefs that assure your success… fast, in a proven way that lasts.
If that interests or excites you, go here to learn more, and if it's a fit for you to do now, sign up and on at: http://BeliefBusters.com
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